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One of the most common problems I see guys run into stems from the reason behind why their woman is ambivalent or resistant about moving forward from fantasy to reality. And do you want to know what that is 7 out of 10 times? So what is it? So many of the objections a woman will give can be traced back to this one simple fact. Intimacy connections are shared events or experiences that make two people feel close to each other.
Every woman has a naughty side. For some women, simply having sex doggystyle is naughty; for others, being naughty means having sex doggystyle at a fairly public playground and recording it for later enjoyment. The point is that your woman has a naughty side.
This is important because getting her in touch with it is going to be a prerequisite for making your fantasy happen. By praising her—in a very specific way. Because people want to act in ways that conform to or are consonant with what others think about them—especially if what others think is perceived as good. This goes hand in hand with what we were just talking about.
The more she finds herself craving sexual stimulation, the more her naughty side will be wanting to come out. And our thoughts and feelings color our universe. Start taking steps to encourage your wife to play by herself on her own, and tell you about it. They keep their physical distance, but they make an emotional one. As he walks her to the door, they can both feel the tension building because the moment of the possibility of a first kiss is approaching.
Most of us have been there…. As they converse over dinner, he asks for a bite of her food and she gives him one using her own fork. Perhaps they feet brush against one another multiple times under the table. They even hold hands during the movie. By the time they arrive back at her house, the amount of times they physically touched one another is more than several—to the point where they both feel comfortable if they come in physical contact.
All of those physical connections helped them acclimate to the idea of a physical connection. There needs to be a lead-up when it comes to making your fantasy happen. This will allow her to experience attention of a sexual nature that comes from someone other than you. Exposing her no pun intended to this kind of attention will make it easier to take more steps down a path that involves sexual attention from others.
Have you ever gotten into an argument with someone close to you, but then one of you suddenly makes a small concession and acknowledges that you can see where the other is coming from? For now, what you want to keep in mind is that you want to let these objections exist. All it means is that you want to validate them. You want to show them you can see things from their perspective, and from that perspective it makes complete sense to for them to think and feel how they are thinking and feeling.
This is different from agreeing and affirming their feelings. You are essentially justifying and subjectively supporting those thoughts and feelings. Simply put, validating is showing them you understand. Affirming is telling them their beliefs and thoughts and feelings are correct.
Get your meta-reasons straight. The mere idea of sleeping with someone else will be a bit intimidating to most, if not all women. For example, some women would be more comfortable with someone they already know. Others might find the idea of a Craigslist ad intriguing. The key here is to have viable answers to her question instead of being caught with your pants down.
If you do all seven of these things, will it absolutely guarantee you can make your fantasy happen in reality? Not if you have to make a few additional tweaks and take a few additional steps based on the strengths and weaknesses of your particular relationship.How to make your wife a hot wife
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