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Anonimous Contributor. Messages 19 Role Diaper Lover Incontinent. Diaper lover dating Role Diaper lover dating. MrCarter Est. Messages 33 Role Diaper Lover. What has been stated before: hide it, show it, then see if the person is open.
If they are not, move on. You would not want someone with you who does not accept you fully for who you are right? I am on a few fetish-y sites where husbands mention their wives allowing or accepting but not participating. I know many people have stated they have had things go both ways meaning that someone might be totally turned off at first, then be willing to participate or at least show acceptance, but then said person will leave the relationship within a week because ultimately they are not that open minded.
This goes for anything considered a kink. On the other hand, some have stated they have got people who thought they were not interested to be interested. I am not thinking suggestion although that could definitely be part of itbut rather the other person thought about it for a while, figured out it was harmless, somehow fun, and decided to in rather than fight it.
So basically IMO do not focus in on fetish-y dating sites. Go for 'normal' sites or just go out in public and then just express yourself when you two get to be in private. Like I said before: if the person you meet is not into it, move on. This means facing possibly a lot of rejection outright but you should not feel discouraged it is very hard to not feel discouraged sometimes. I try to think of it more like I am the person doing the job interview I have done many for my jobsand if someone does not fit the bill, that person does not get hired. There is no bad blood between that other person and I although it may be very difficult to be friends after that.
Similarly, in a business, we would never want to waste time and money on someone who really does not fully meet or exceed the qualifications for the job. WildRoseBaby Est. Fetlife is the closest thing. But you need to be willing to go to munches and events and meet people in person.
Every female ABDL on there gets a pretty constant stream of short messages from socially inept guys so just messaging people is kinda a waste of time. There are some personals groups which might be worthwhile.
ExtraFluff Contributor. Messages Role Diaper Lover. MasterPython said:. Click to expand Dating sites are full of men and fake female profiles. Going to general fetish munches rather than diaper ones at least give you a remote chance. Cottontail Sailing, sailing, Sure, you'll be able to swim ashore, but you'll be back where you started from. Better to wait until the New World is at least on the horizon, in my opinion. There again, swimming ashore is likely, but while that may leave you looking like a weirdo, the many intervening adventures have an opportunity to make up for it. Excluding muggles from the pool of prospective partners is a very unfortunate thing to have to do.
You know -- because that's like Last edited: Feb 2, ClickyKeys Est. Messages Role Incontinent. ExtraFluff said:. That's what I'm unwilling to do. I fail to understand how that can benefit any guy looking to meet a woman. Personally, I have no desire to meet any other guys into this. It's not appealing one bit. FetLife is useless, essentially. Strangely enough, I've only had success with Craigslist, the most maligned site.
I've talked to two real women into this on the phone and met one in person just to diaper lover dating, and they both responded to my. Neither conversation actually led to a diaper meet-up, but that's beside the point. Messages 1, Role Private. I think it's important to consider a few things. I have met very few people who have a drive to be a caretaker that comes naturally to them, and more often then not the ones I've met have been "daddy doms" focused on finding attractive women in diapers, and the idea of controlling a woman like a little girl to be sexy. No judgement, just saying the type I see naturally interested in this diaper lover dating to be limited in this way.
Obviously this leaves a lot of be desired for most ABDL's which leaves them wanting to find places to meet people. I just think ABDL dating sites really are sites that are destined to fail in this regard.
They are full of AB's and DL's. They are not full of caretakers.
I think it's natural and fine that a grown person just doesn't instinctual tend to have a super driven desire to diaper someone else. So I feel like looking for sites that are specifically catered to ABDL is like, honestly a really bad place to look for a match unless you are a switch looking for other switches. What this doesn't mean is that your future partner won't be willing to do it, and won't even love it.
It's just important to really get out of that comfort zone and meet some "muggles" as Cottontail put it. My ificant other only knew the most base minimal thing about ABDL when I met her, and although she is not the kind of person who would have ever put "caretaker" on a dating site and still wouldn't, she loves making sure I feel like her little fairy princess.
I know it's cheesy, but a relationship needs to have a lot more of a foundation then a shared kink. It needs to have a foundation that's stronger, and that's what's important to look for at first. This doesn't mean I'm recommending getting married and then only then telling your partner too. The moment I started feeling things were getting serious with my partner I told her, but I didn't shout it the moment we met. I didn't grill her on it the second we started trying to see if even something there.
I feel like people are much more willing to accept this kinda stuff from someone they are falling in love with, then someone they are just meeting. ClickyKeys said:. Not necessarily. A munch I hate the term too lol, but it is what it is I guess I held the other day was all women except for two people. Cottontail said:. Belarin Est. Forced Est. When I do bother to reply I always recommend using a mainstream dating site but be honest in your 'introduction' about what you want. Below is a reply I gave in a thread recently regarding a Diaper lover dating discovery.
Saying that if the person was nt prepared to accept it then there's no point in contacting me.
As I said earlier it's occasional and I don't need changing every few hours of everyday! For the major part of my life I'm all man, very physical, sharing chores around the home, fiercely protective and enjoy providing for my loved ones. The first time I did it, I used an image of a regular guy similar in age to myself. I got a few views but only one person, an older lady contacted me for further information. She was nice but not my type. As the second part of the experiment I used the same words in the profile but changed the image to a much more attractive man So many women contacting me saying how "brave you are" and it's great to be so "honest" Lo wanted to meet up and were intrigued by the AB lifestyle.Diaper lover dating
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