Bdsm service top

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What is a service top anyway? I want a kind-hearted, proficient, and energetic top to mysteriously appear in my apartment, beat me senseless, and then fist me until we both collapse in a sticky puddle of come and sweat. I want a top who gets off doing this, who needs to control the scene and beat me, as much as I need to be submissive and beaten. I want a physical and emotional connection between us, albeit for just a few hours.

The term top is slightly different when referring to a sexual top, than when referring to a BDSM top.

Bdsm service top

A professional service top is generally referred to as a pro dom. I asked my friends for their thoughts on service tops, and it turned out that they had many opinions. Non-service tops seek their own pleasure, physical and emotional and, I would add, in the confidence that being used that way is what gives the bottom pleasure. I see the definition depends highly on to whom you are speaking!

Bdsm service top

That same service top may also find pleasure in dressing their bottom, polishing their boots, or cooking for them or feeding them. Some service tops find pleasure e. As someone else mentioned, I often think of a service top as being a professional for hire. Their sole job is to give their paying bottom client exactly what they want. I do it a lot with pick up play with newbies. My butch considers themself a top with a capital T but switches with meand while what you are describing sounds just like the arrangement they had with bdsm service top femme.

The commonality is that he is the dominant each time. My friends described two service top definitions that I found less compelling, therefore neglected to include in my idiocentric definition of a service top. One was the educational top and the other was the paid top.

What do these tops get from the scene? Even if the bottom is not perceived as overtly submissive, the educational top is still being dominant in their role as teacher; they have special BDSM knowledge and control how this knowledge is doled out.

Bdsm service top

They may not get their sadistic side fed, however they clearly get their dominant side fed. The professional top is the other one. They get money for their services. Is the professional top at heart a top or a sadist, is this just a job, and is this question even relevant? Hiring a professional top sounds enticing though; my dreams of beating, fisting, and cake in bed could be met!

My smarty pants definition of a service top is that they bake a cake, fill your sexual and masochistic desires, then feed you that yummy cake. In bed. Buttery pound cake works for me.

Bdsm service top

My thoughtful answer is that ideally the top and bottom are in service to one another. The bottom services the top with their trust, submission, and reactions, while the top services the bottom with their trust, dominance, and manipulations. As they react with one another, the top and bottom form a spiral of energy that increases as their energies merge, and as they compel one another higher levels of expression.

Succinctly, the more that I cry and come, the more the top growls and hurts me. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google. You are commenting using your Twitter. You are commenting using your Facebook. Notify me of new comments via .

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